When Mrs. G asked the question about where the heart of our homes was, I had to think a moment. The answer came flying into my head immediately, but I had to make sure it was right.
It could be the dining room. Our family has a meal there together at least once a day—sometimes more on the weekends. We spend a lot of time there talking, laughing, sharing.
It could be my bedroom. Due to a surgery nearly 3 years ago where I was on the completely inactive list for 10 weeks, I slept in most days. My daughters would actually wake up before I got out of bed, and I would allow them to get into bed with me. That ritual has never died on mornings that are lazy for me. My husband takes a picture of “all the girls” (which includes one of the cats) every New Year’s morning. We have tickle parties there. We read stories there. We talk there.
But in the end, my first thought was right. The heart of my home is my stamping room. It is the largest room of the house and was intended to be a family room when built. But until we move away, that will never be its purpose.
It is the heart for many reasons. It is where I spend more time than any place else. My business is run from this room. Classes are taught here. Gifts and cards are made here. I stamp with friends here. My daughters enjoy stamping with me here, too. The computer is also here in the corner which works as an office which means that I spend even more time here checking my e-mail, paying bills, and now, blogging. I am in this room a lot. But just my presence does not make this room the heart of my home.
This room is joined to the kitchen as one giant room. So when I cook (which gets equal to or more time than stamping), I am still a part of the room. And the whole family is here as well. There is the lunch/art table for the girls, where they do all kinds of projects whether I am cooking or stamping. Here is also where the “clubhouse” is, an area under a work table that I have curtained off with old fabric. And there is again, the computer, where my husband can unwind while playing silly computer games, surfing the internet and reading all the blogs that I tell him are funny or really good. All-in-all, the whole family spends more time here than anywhere else. It is creative time except for the video games and fun time.
A few months ago I bought some nifty storage units to organize this jam-packed room a little better. It made me almost as happy as stamping does. Everything is neat and organized (except for the desk which will never be is not even close to that state), and there is more room. Of course that means more room for Pollys and Barbies and all manner of toys to be left to trip over, but that is part of what makes this room the heart of our home.
by Louise Cannon
Note: For those of you who know me, do not for one second think I will be regularly posting this frequently. This is a fluke, and I do not think I can keep up if it happens again!