You have not seen posting of this frequency from me since summer, and even then, maybe only once. Well, it is not over! Today is Installment Number 2 in a string of family events about which I am planning to post. The first was here. And Chic was born three days after my mom’s 60th birthday.
This year Chic’s birthday is on Thanksgiving, but as mentioned before, I am in the habit of posting a day early. She had her school “party” yesterday. There was only a half-day of school, so it was perfect for a birthday celebration; it was already festive. Here are the treats Prince Charming and I made. I was supposed to make all of them, but I have been busy, and I was gone Monday night, so he did most of the cupcake decorating. (The cupcakes are “teepees” and the bags have caramel-apple snack mix in them.)
So Chic will be seven tomorrow, and I cannot let this pass without making a post just about her…
Chic arrived in the world about six months before the family (Prince Charming and Louise) plan. Prince Charming did not know that I had changed the plan, but I knew we would probably be moving very soon after Chic’s arrival if Plan A were kept in place. Most of my life had been spent in southwest Missouri. Even in the times I did not live there (mostly due to going to school), that was still my home. People knew me. People loved me. People were DYING for me to have children. Let us just say that naive Prince Charming thought life was really, really wonderul approximately nine months before Chic was born. But when he found out about her early arrival, he thought life was even more wonderful. (And also that he was pretty stupid.) PC really, REALLY wanted children. I was a bit ambivalent about it. I knew I would love them if I had them, but I also knew I would be fine if I never did. The surprise for him was a good one.
Prince Charming and I tried to keep much about Chic secret–the fact that she was even coming, the fact that she was a “her,” etc. But some of my family did not make that easy. The one thing we kept a secret was her name–which is going to remain a secret to most of you! But I WILL tell you that we had her name picked before she ever came into being, and it is Irish. It is definitely not the strangest Irish name out there to English ears, but almost no one in our world can say it when they see the spelling, or spell it when they hear it pronounced. But the reason to tell you about this name is that Chic was so accommodating about it when she arrived with red hair. Not sort-of red hair, but flame red hair. This was not an enormous surprise because there is red hair in both families, but Prince Charming and I both have dark hair, so it was a nice, little surprise.
Since Chic’s arrival, my life has changed, of course. But it is all good. She is a sparkling jewel in my life, just as her red hair sparkles in the sun. She is sensitive to others, smart (REALLY smart), kind, thoughtful, and all-around good. She has a beautiful smile and is not shy about letting everyone see it. She is full of life and happy. (Most of the time. I see moodiness in her at times, and it makes me fear for the teenage years.) She is responsible. She is fast and strong. She is a little shy, but not self-conscious.
I never expected to have a girl (and I have two). But I really wanted a girl, so when I learned Chic would be coming, I was so excited. I was a little worried about Prince Charming who was the oldest son of the oldest son, etc. But he loves having girls.
People say Chic looks like me in the face. That is harder for me to see because I see us both so much. But she has her dad’s body. I am hoping it will remain feminine as she ages (she is already wondering why her legs are not “skinny” like other girls who have what seem like “bird legs” to an athletically-built family), but her genes have given her the ability to run like lightning without tiring and jump high and far. She is not always the most graceful, but that is improving as she grows.
Almost everything she does, she does well. But this is also a problem for her. If she tries something once, and does not excel at it, she does not want to continue trying. Unfortunately, this is genetic, too, but Prince Charming and I work very hard with her to make her understand that not every single thing in life is easy the first time we try. So far in her life, this is the biggest challenge we face with her. (Check back with me in 6 or 7 years, and I am sure that will seem like nothing!)
Some of the reasons she is extra special to me are:
-She is happy almost all of the time.
-She has red hair!
-She is diligent and responsible.
-She is thoughtful and kind. (Most of the time! She’s only seven tomorrow!)
-She learns easily.
-She is helpful, both to her family and others she sees anywhere.
-She has an open and generous heart.
-She is full of life.
Happy Birthday, Chic! You are getting a big party this year! (Thanksgiving.)
November 26, 2008 at 3:17 pm
Happy Birthday to a beautiful girl!
November 26, 2008 at 3:27 pm
Happy birthday to your sweet girl!! And my curiosity is over flowing with all of the possible Irish names (we also looked at some great Irish names for the Miss Ky but voted them out because of our VERY plain last name).
November 26, 2008 at 3:42 pm
Happy Birthday, Chic!!
You are definitely loved!!
November 26, 2008 at 5:05 pm
Wonderful post. Children sure DO change your life. Isn’t it wonderful. You’re lucky to have Chic, and Chic’s lucky to have wonderful parents, too.
November 26, 2008 at 5:26 pm
Happy Birthday to Chic. She shares her birthday with my mother. Listening to you describe Chic’s attributes she sounds like my niece and who is a few weeks younger. Children truly are a blessing to have. I know my husband had decided that we probably were not meant to have children as it was a long time waiting for our first blessing and I will say we certainly were not expecting our second quite so soon after the first. Enjoy your family this weekend and have a blessed Thanksgiving.
November 26, 2008 at 6:19 pm
Aww happy birthday sweet one. Such a lovely post.. oozing with pride. Enjoy the day. 🙂
November 26, 2008 at 7:31 pm
This is gorgeous. I love other people’s love posts!
We, too, kept our babies a secret until it was pretty obvious to everyone that they were coming. We kept the names a secret, too – they were the first (besides us) to hear their names; that was important to us (and both our red-headed girls have old Gaelic names, too, though ours aren’t tough to pronounce). We decided NOT to find out whether we were having boys or girls (though I DID ask the ultrasound tech to make sure there was only ONE baby in there at a time; twins run in both our families). We were thrilled when they both came as girls; two girls was exactly what we wanted.
Happy birthday, Chic! I hope that, someday, you get to meet MY babies!
November 26, 2008 at 9:37 pm
How wonderful to share Chic’s story…..Happy Birthday, Chic!
November 26, 2008 at 9:37 pm
Happy birthday! So you carried her around in a catbox when she was small?:)
November 26, 2008 at 10:41 pm
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November 26, 2008 at 11:18 pm
Is Chic in a dog carrier?
November 26, 2008 at 11:21 pm
Happy Birthday Chic! Can’t wait to see you in a few weeks!
Love this post.
November 26, 2008 at 11:55 pm
Happy Birthday to your beautiful girl!
November 27, 2008 at 12:49 am
Its a double celebration.
Happy Birthday to that cute child Chic and Happy Thanksgiving too. Enjoy the rest of the week Louise.
November 27, 2008 at 9:17 am
Happy Birthday from me tooo!!!
What a beautiful red hairs ( I am red haired too)
JoAnn
November 27, 2008 at 9:21 am
HEY – Happy Birthday Chic!! I’m so glad I can call her that here, if not in real life. I’d swear you’d have come up with a different name for the world to call her (the world who doesn’t know her Irish name). Hope your Thanksgiving is wonderful – tell Chic the farm is waiting – along with farm-fresh eggs and plenty of horse rides. She has to come and get her birthday present (the experience is her present).
November 27, 2008 at 2:09 pm
Many Happy Returns to your daughter Chic, such a lovely looking child.
I give her the name Siobhan.
Bet she will be given hundreds of Irish names.
Have a great week.
November 27, 2008 at 4:28 pm
Happy birthday to your sweet daughter! My son (who is now 21) has an Irish name that many people did not know how to pronounce. It’s a little better now because there is a pretty well-known actor with the same name…
November 27, 2008 at 5:08 pm
Happy Birthday, what a wonderful skywatch shot.
Cheers!
Regina In Pictures
November 27, 2008 at 5:09 pm
I love your photo today!
November 27, 2008 at 6:56 pm
Happy Birthday to Chic. Sweet beautiful girl.
November 27, 2008 at 10:56 pm
i love that she was brought home in a pet carrier. kidding. That first picture is precious. 😉
lovely post and tribute to a beautiful girl.
November 28, 2008 at 1:14 am
happy birthday and happy thanksgiving to you all!
November 28, 2008 at 2:19 am
Happy birthday, joyeux anniversaire… to Chic, such a lovely first name for a lovely person.
In French chic is smart, stylish or to have the knack to do something !
November 28, 2008 at 7:59 am
I loved reading about Chic and hearing the love you have for her shining through. A late Happy Birthday to Chic!!
November 28, 2008 at 10:45 am
You have a precious child there Louise, she is adorable and that red hair is gorgeous! Wonderful post to celebrate her special day (and Mommy’s). Happy Birthday Chic one day late, and know you all must have had a very special Thanksgiving this year.
November 28, 2008 at 7:20 pm
Looks like you got all your ducks (or geese as it may be) in a row – a lovely photo.
lionsmane
November 28, 2008 at 9:44 pm
Happy Birthday to your sweet little girl. Lovely photo, very pretty!
November 30, 2008 at 10:09 am
One can eat goose on Thanksgiving! But, better to let them be free like these wonderful birds! 🙂 I love this Skywatch photo! I always enjoy the geese so much when I see them flying overhead, or on lakes and ponds.
Thanks for your comment on my Skywatch…it was a “cheater” one, since it was more about the horses than the sky! But, I hope nobody minded! I agree with you that developed beaches are an eyesore! Fortunately the Wild Horses of Corolla have been able to retreat northward toward Virginia, because of all the development, to get some peace. But it’s harder to see them now because that area is pretty inaccessible to vehicles (which is a good thing!) except off-road vehicles, but I understand they do tours for people who want to see them, and I’m glad. Still, they have suffered over the years, and I hate it so much!
Marie