Dear Readers,
The picture is a hay rake I saw during my last visit to Tennessee to see my daughter.
I realize I have been absent a long time–almost a month. I have not turned on my “blogging computer” in that time more than two or three times. I apologize. All of you know life gets in the way sometimes. It got in the way very big and very unexpectedly after my last post. I have no idea when I will be back–if I will be back. I hope to be back, but I cannot predict anything.
Here is a little of it:
-Three months ago we had three pets. We now have one, and the other one we thought was lost as well. That has been a lot of stress, never mind time.
-Chic is still in Tennessee, and that takes a lot of time. Writing extra letters, sending extra packages, Skyping on her schedule and visiting. And although it is what is best right now, it is an emotional drain for us.
-Chic’s school here will be better next year, but there is giant upheaval that is causing extreme amounts of stress and time drain. Prince Charming is on the school board, and one week there were three meetings. There are meetings, interviews, etc. at least every two weeks, usually more, and private consults in between. (And I am so glad Chic is not here to be in the environment of upheaval.)
-A very good friend of ours has some serious health problems. We only recently learned the extent of the seriousness, and we know that we are among a handful in the know. Not only do we need to lend our time and support, but we want to.
What I hope is that this is like a new job with lots more responsibility. When I first get a job like that, there is often a big learning curve. It seems overwhelming, and I work late. But then suddenly, I figure it all out, and I am often bored like I was at the previous job. But I have not been bored in a long, long time. My schedule is always at maximum capacity, so extra things never fit. I might make them adjust with time, but I might not.
My life has thrown a lot at me lately that I have chosen to let take a lot of my time. I believe it is important that I do that, but the thing that has had to suffer is blogging (and Facebook). I have not even had time to get on here and do a post like this although I knew I should a few weeks ago.
I will be back when I can… if I can. But I think of you all the time. I miss reading your blogs, but I know I cannot allow myself to do that right now or the daily things will not get accomplished. And I have a lot to tell you and show you, but now just is not the time.
Love you and miss you,
Louise
April 8, 2010 at 7:22 am
Totally understood, Louise. I’m sorry for your pet losses and other stresses. I hope everything settles down for you soon. Take good care.
April 8, 2010 at 9:21 am
NO apologies necessary .. living life is more important than blogging about it .. miss you but totally understand .. xox
April 8, 2010 at 9:26 am
Life happens. You’re doing the best you can and that’s all you can ask of yourself. In the grand scheme of things, blogging, facebook, etc. really isn’t that important.
The very best to you my friend.
April 8, 2010 at 9:29 am
We miss you too, but life is more important. Take care.
April 8, 2010 at 9:53 am
Louise, I’m so glad you posted at least to let us know you are OK, busy but in a good way. You have a lot of new adventures coming that will take much time. I do hope you’ll at least stop once in a while to post a note yet understand if you don’t. Please know that best wishes are sent your way with the power of the universe behind you. Blessings and Hugs!
Glad to hear Chic’s school is getting on track.
April 8, 2010 at 9:54 am
Louise, I’ve been thinking about you. I’m glad to find out you’re alright, just busy. Your family, friends IRL and community are WAY more important than those in blogland. But, we love you and are glad to know you are well.
April 8, 2010 at 1:17 pm
We miss you, but you have more important things to take care of at the moment. We’ll keep you and your family in our prayers.
April 8, 2010 at 3:02 pm
You’ve been on my mind a lot lately. Thanks for letting me know all is well, just busy. I have been very busy myself and it has taken a toll on the blog. I went from 6-7 days per week to 3.
We just have to take things one day at a time. If I have time, I blog.
Take care. Love you, too!
April 8, 2010 at 4:02 pm
Louise, sounds like a lot. It’s a lovely photo! Glad I have you in my Google Reader, so I can sometimes catch bits and pieces of “you.” Take care.
April 8, 2010 at 4:28 pm
Louise, thank so much for coming back with the update. I am sorry for the losses and the friend’s illness. I hope that things will eventually settle and in a positive way, and that you will b back. Even if not, you are in my thoughts.
April 8, 2010 at 7:09 pm
Those crazy curve balls that life throws at all of us. Take care and I’ll see you when I see you.
April 9, 2010 at 7:57 am
There’s a lot happening in your life at the moment, Louise. I’m sorry to hear about all the sad things.
Take care of yourself and your loved ones.
April 9, 2010 at 8:35 am
Sometimes life is busy and challenging and blogs move towards the side of the mainstream and that’s ok. I’m sorry some of the reasons are sad. One morning this week I found one of our kitties dead and it was a shock, he was young. Pets are an important part of our lives too and it’s an emotional event when we lose them. Hang in there!
April 10, 2010 at 6:30 am
Hi!
It’s been a long time.
You have a lot of terrible thing in this short time.
Are you fine?
There are a lot of tough things in life.
I hope we live easier!
Have a lovely weekend!
April 10, 2010 at 11:39 am
That’s a really great photo! Sure wish it was one of mine…
And it sounds like you’ve been really busy — apologies for not blogging more definitely accepted…
Sorry for news of the loss of your pets…
April 11, 2010 at 6:08 pm
xoxo
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April 12, 2010 at 4:39 pm
Delightful picture of the old farm equipment with the blue sky! Take care of yourself and do not let the stress build too high.
April 16, 2010 at 4:25 am
I understand you…and I miss you so much.
I wish you all happiness in this world.
You are an special friend,
God bless you
Léia
April 18, 2010 at 10:47 pm
Hello Louise! I like very much this beautiful image!
April 22, 2010 at 8:28 pm
We, your friendly blogging community, totally understands. We have all been there at one time or another. You take care of you and your family. We will be here waiting to take you back with open arms ! xo
April 22, 2010 at 9:13 pm
Hi Louise…
The present moment with the people at hand and close to your heart is so very important…
Wishing you comfort in the loss of your pets… and health and strength to care for those who need you ♥ Maria
May 7, 2010 at 7:28 am
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May 12, 2010 at 7:33 am
just do what you have to do. we come by, from time to time, to see what’s new. I guess we are patient :). hugs!
May 13, 2010 at 6:18 pm
I too have been on an extened hiatus from blogging, including reading. I have often thought of you and your family and so I felt quite at a loss to find that you are now needing some time off. We just keep missing each other! I hope your life settles soon. (hugs)
May 14, 2010 at 10:06 am
Just checking in and hoping all is well with you and family.
October 26, 2010 at 1:27 am
its overwhelming to read your post
I am sorry about your pets…
March 31, 2011 at 3:22 pm
Hi Louise, it’s been almost a year since you stopped blogging. I hope everything is OK with you and yours. I think about you now and then, especially when I spot a sundog!
May 1, 2011 at 4:34 pm
Hi Louise! Like Jan, I’ve been thinking about you and wanted to check in. I hope you and your family are well.
June 3, 2011 at 1:54 am
Ability to give apology will bring happiness.
June 29, 2011 at 4:17 pm
There’s a lot of bloggers going awol due to life interfering. I hope you can come back soon. GORGEOUS hayrake, btw.
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